One of the biggest mistakes that men make is to wear clothing with a strong contrast – a white shirt, brown belt and blue jeans for example.
The problem with this is that the sudden color change – from white to brown to blue – creates a visual interruption.
It’s the way that you can make people focus on present.
Over the years, I’ve dated and slept with women of all heights, ranging from 5’1″ to six-foot tall amazons.The trick is understanding how to make height less of an issue.But when we feel like someone is giving us their listening instead of waiting for your turn to talk – is absurdly powerful.When you can build presence, women won’t remember you as that short man at the party.The thing is, as with many other masculine insecurities, this is predominantly in our heads. Worse, I’m the shortest of all my friends who range from 5’1o” on the short side, to 6’7″ on the tall side.
But my height has only been as much of a problem as I’d let it be.
potential attraction, no matter how awesome you may be otherwise. The more you let your height (or lack thereof) bother you, the less attractive you get.
A shitty attitude, whether angry and aggressive or defeated and negative, will nuke any chance of sex or love faster than telling them that you eat live puppies. A short man with confidence is far more attractive than a tall guy without it.
One of the best things you can do – especially as a short man – is to develop your sense of presence.
Presence is, simply, your ability to command people’s attention.
Seem like a tall order One of the worst things that guys can do to themselves is to get defensive about being short.